Guys just don't get it
Guys always say girls think too much. The fact is guys think too little and they imagine too much...
It's hard to be a 'girlfriend'... What i mean here is a girl whom the guy will one day plan to marry or maybe if something cropped out, they won't.
Guys either imagine their girlfriend to be superwoman or a toy.
Superwoman - they expect their girlfriends to be totally understanding to what they have did and said, even if it sounds really ridiculous, for eg, wanting a female friend, other than their girlfriends, who can share ups and downs with them. They forgot we are human too, with feelings...
Toy - They expect their girlfriends to listen to whatever they say and to obey their words. If they say yes is yes, they say no is no. They might as well go and buy a sex doll...
They think we are kicking a big fuss if we got jealous over a girl whom he thinks he has no interest in. They expect their girlfriends to trust them even when they write a post in their blog abt that girl less than one week after they quarrelled over that particular girl.
What's the difference when they promised they won't talk about other girls again and the next moment they wrote about them?
Are we 'girlfriends' supposed to be taken for granted? To be as insensitive as them?
We do things for them not expecting anything back, we forgive them when they make mistakes. During their ups and downs, we are always there for them...
Do they ever realise it?
Well, my boyfriend don't. I told him straight off im jealous, i share with him my feelings... but nothing goes into his head. Now im not going to say anything anymore. To him, im superwoman.
He still can ask me if i mind he write about her. He ask me after he has already wrote it and posted it in his blog. Is he giving me a choice when he asked me that?
If he really minds how I feel, what's the point of asking only after he has wrote it?
Im utterly disappointed, but what else can i do? He has never written anything like that for me. I never expect him to cos he's not that kind of mushy person.
But he can write so well about someone else.
This is the last thing i saying about this thingy. Im keeping my bloody mouth shut from now on.
It's hard to be a 'girlfriend'... What i mean here is a girl whom the guy will one day plan to marry or maybe if something cropped out, they won't.
Guys either imagine their girlfriend to be superwoman or a toy.
Superwoman - they expect their girlfriends to be totally understanding to what they have did and said, even if it sounds really ridiculous, for eg, wanting a female friend, other than their girlfriends, who can share ups and downs with them. They forgot we are human too, with feelings...
Toy - They expect their girlfriends to listen to whatever they say and to obey their words. If they say yes is yes, they say no is no. They might as well go and buy a sex doll...
They think we are kicking a big fuss if we got jealous over a girl whom he thinks he has no interest in. They expect their girlfriends to trust them even when they write a post in their blog abt that girl less than one week after they quarrelled over that particular girl.
What's the difference when they promised they won't talk about other girls again and the next moment they wrote about them?
Are we 'girlfriends' supposed to be taken for granted? To be as insensitive as them?
We do things for them not expecting anything back, we forgive them when they make mistakes. During their ups and downs, we are always there for them...
Do they ever realise it?
Well, my boyfriend don't. I told him straight off im jealous, i share with him my feelings... but nothing goes into his head. Now im not going to say anything anymore. To him, im superwoman.
He still can ask me if i mind he write about her. He ask me after he has already wrote it and posted it in his blog. Is he giving me a choice when he asked me that?
If he really minds how I feel, what's the point of asking only after he has wrote it?
Im utterly disappointed, but what else can i do? He has never written anything like that for me. I never expect him to cos he's not that kind of mushy person.
But he can write so well about someone else.
This is the last thing i saying about this thingy. Im keeping my bloody mouth shut from now on.
posted by Fion | 7:38 PM
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